When we first got married, I was 24 and M was 27. My life plan was to have babies at age 25, 27, 29 and 31. 4 kids two years apart. HA. Good thing that wasn't carved in stone.
I was 27 when we did our FET and 28 when I delivered. We thought about waiting till after Sam was 2 before going back to the RE. Of course, I did tell the nurse at my 6 wk post partum follow up that I hoped to see them sometime that year with a new baby on the way. Those post-partum hormones are insane y'all. I can't even imagine.
Whenever we would talk about baby #2, I would get overwhelmed. I am an only child, so I don't know how siblings interact or how to parent more than 1 baby. General anxiety over how to juggle two babies, if we'd be screwing Sam up by changing her whole world. Mike said we wouldn't screw her up, we'd be making her a big sister. It will makes me nervous to think about, but I think she will be a great big sister when the time comes. After I made the appt with the RE, my feelings of nervousness were lessening and my feelings of excitement were growing. Which I take as a good sign :)
For now, I leave you with a cute picture. Where did my little baby go?